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from Natural Life magazine,
September/October 2008 Have you ever made a decision and committed yourself to a course of action, only to awaken one night in a cold, panicking sweat, convinced that you made a terrible, terrible mistake? If so, then welcome to the human family and to my world in particular. Mistakes seem to have become somewhat of a hobby of mine more often than I’d like to admit. But I’ve also learned that not everything that scares us sleepless has to be wrong. In fact, fear can often mean that we are doing something exactly right.
In their book You Have the Power: Choosing Courage in a Culture of Fear “But here’s the rub: To create solutions for our lives right
now, and to reverse planet wide decimation of our very life-support system,
requires two things of us: that we do something different than we are doing
today, which is just another way of saying we must walk into the unknown Lappé and Perkins go on to say that whereas “staying with the pack” once meant life, “now it means death, death for our spirits, and ultimately for our planet.” Which brings me to what has been keeping me up at nights over this past year or so – namely, unschooling my 12-year-old son. My wife Dana and I made the decision to unschool Avery very early on, when he was virtually indistinguishable from a butterbean-sized alien (or so the ultrasound images led us to believe). We were both teachers and knew firsthand what a spirit-squashing, soul-sucking place schools can be, especially for kids (and adults) who are inclined to march to the beat of their own drummer. We wanted to give Avery the freedom, trust, and respect that would allow him to naturally grow into the wonderfully unique person he was destined to be. And we did. And he did. For 10 years. And then came the dreaded “N-word.” No, our son was not a prepubescent racist. The “N-word” I am referring to is NINTENDO! Ahhhhhhhhhhh! After a few years of successfully fending off this video game beast, we finally let our guard down and allowed a handheld Gameboy to cross the sacred threshold of our home. But there was no way.... To read the rest of this article, subscribe to Natural Life's online edition. Jim Strickland lives in Everett, Washington with his wife Dana and children, Avery, Jamison and Owen. He is a community-based educator in nearby Marysville and works to create democratic, non-coercive learning opportunities. He is a community organizer and passionate promoter of sustainable living in his local area. He attributes his commitment to unschooling to his hero of many years, John Holt. |
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Frances Moore Lappé and Jeffrey Perkins write about fear as an evolved survival
mechanism warning us to stay with the pack – or else!
